It’s interesting how sometimes you think you are being transparent with those around you and come to find out, you are no more transparent than a brick wall. I was having a conversation this morning with some teachers in the copy room when one of them asked me about Daystar. I proceeded to tell her about the church plant and how exciting it has been so far and that she should come and visit with us sometime. Well, my teammate who is across the hall from me was also in the copy room and said “I didn’t know you were planting a church!” She and I continued to chat and come to find out, she has a Lutheran background and her fiancee has a Baptist background and they are currently seeking somewhere to connect. So, they are going to talk it over and may visit with us this coming Sunday. This is all awesome, but I felt so ashamed that I hadn’t mentioned this before!! I felt sure that I had, but obviously not. I ended up apologizing to her later for not having mentioned it before! How is it possible that the most significant thing I am a part of right now has escaped my daily conversation? Then comes the question. Is it really significant to me? Now, the answer to this question is yes. The problem isn’t in whether or not it is significant to me. The problem lies in my willingness to be transparent with those around me so that they can easily see what is and isn’t significant to me. Small talk builds acquaintances. Authenticity builds relationships.
I sometimes think I am so transparent. The truth of the matter is, if you know me I am transparent. I want people to know my heart. I want my light to shine. I am glad that your teammate might be coming to the church plant. I hope to meet her next time I am in town. Take care
It is very encouraging to hear that you invited your coworker to the Patio. You’re absolutely right about small talk versus authenticity. I feel convicted of my own attempts at authenticity because of your blog, and I plan on being more purposeful with my relationships at work. Thanks.